Read Proverbs 15:20–24
Questions from the Scripture text: What sort of son does what for whom (Proverbs 15:20a)? But who does what to whom else (verse 20b)? What is joyous to whom in Proverbs 15:21a? Who is his counterpart, and what does he do (verse 21b)? What is there a risk of lacking, and what happens in that case (Proverbs 15:22a)? How are plans established (verse 22b)? What can give a man joy (Proverbs 15:23a)? What sort of answer, specifically (verse 23b)? Whose way goes where (Proverbs 15:24a)? Turning away from where (verse 24b)?
Who have true joy? Proverbs 15:20–24 looks forward to the sermon in the midweek meeting this week. In these five verses of Holy Scripture, the Holy Spirit teaches us that those who rejoice in the Lord have true joy.
The previous section (Proverbs 15:13-19) drove home the principle that one is made happy not by changed circumstances but by a changed heart. Now, the Scripture focuses upon some of those circumstances that themselves change, when the heart is changed, and how joyful they are to the godly heart.
Proverbs 15:20 reminds us of the introduction to this extended section of “proverbs of Solomon” (cf. Proverbs 10:1). But it rings a little differently in the context of a section that is focused upon joy. Just as the Christian must hate to grieve Christ, so the son should hate to grieve his parents. Christ is not robbed of joy, but how dreadful to grieve the most joyful Man there has ever been! And a godly father and mother have continual joy in the Lord (cf. Philippians 4:4), which makes it even better to be part of the Lord’s good gifts to them (Proverbs 15:20a), and even worse to be a grief to them. In fact, a man cannot rightly claim to love his mother if he is a fool; the willingness to grieve her by his folly demonstrates that he truly has little regard for her (verse 20b).
Proverbs 15:21-22 describe the joyous path. It’s not the fool’s gold of the fool’s joy. He loves folly. He enjoys just letting himself go—as if the Lord doesn’t exist, and as if life from God, through God, and to God is not a weighty thing. This shows that he is heartless (Proverbs 15:21a, literally)—not in the way of being cruel, but in the way of being senseless about what is truly good and joyous. His plans do not go straight (Proverbs 15:22a), according to what is right, like those of the man in Proverbs 15:21b. By contrast, that man, the upright man, has the heart not only to desire the right way, but to value input from those whom the Lord has given him to guide him in that way (Proverbs 15:22b). So the upright man has joy in the Lord that desires what is right, joy in the counsel that directs him in what is right, and joy in the actual doing of what is right! This, of course, begins with that first set of counselors that Proverbs 15:20 had in view: the godly father and mother.
Proverbs 15:23-24 build upon this idea of the joy of receiving and following good counsel—and of coming to be the one who gives it as well. To the one who has joy in the Lord, he delights not only to learn the Lord’s ways, but to be used by the Lord to teach others (Proverbs 15:23a). As the Lord graces him and gifts him, his delight isn’t so much in himself as it is in the Lord, in those moments of speaking the right word, in the right way, at the right time (verse 23b). He rejoices, in part, because this skill that the Lord is growing in him is just one part of the Lord’s bringing him steadily to glory (Proverbs 15:24a)—a reminder that the good God is giving him the opposite of what he deserves (Proverbs 15:25b).
So, dear reader, it is possible that you may need a “joy transplant,” where you learn to delight, more in more, in those things that those people delight in, who delight themselves in the Lord. There are so many who wish to have the desires of their heart; the Bible recipe for that is to begin by delighting oneself in the Lord (cf. Psalm 37:4).
What are your joys in life? Which joys would be greater? How can they become your joys? How greatly would you enjoy them? What evidence, in your life, do you have that the Lord is taking you to glory?
Sample prayer: Lord, thank You for giving to us Your own joy—delight in You Yourself. Grant unto us to enjoy desiring that delight, being directed into that delight, and doing that which You teach us to find delightful. So, give us that wonderful aspect of the fruit of Your Spirit that is the joy of Christ Himself, in Whom we ask it, AMEN!
Suggested songs: ARP1 “How Blessed the Man” or TPH128B “Blest the Man Who Fears Jehovah”